Deadbeat Parents And The Morons Who Think It's Ok.

Thread on SAS earlier made me possibly hate humanity even more then I already did. It sickens me that so many guys there think if a man doesn't want kids he shouldn't be forced to help support one should he get someone pregnant. I like how none of them could even give a good reason or reply with anything even halfway intelligent. Especially this one jerk who just chose to insult me and my intelligence because he obviously couldn't come up with a defense for his position.

So many men (and women too) need to learn to keep their damn pants on if they don't ever want a child. If you wanna have sex either get married or at least be in a long term relationship with the person. If you want to have casual sex you're more then likely a moron, because sex can never be casual, you always have some risk, be it stds, chance of pregnancy or even a lover of theirs finding out and taking revenge. Condoms are NOT 100% effective, nor is birth control, even using both is no guarantee.

Casual sex is alot less bad however if both partners 1. Aren't sleeping with anyone else at the time or if they are sleeping with others they are being upfront with all partners and all partners are ok with this slutting around and 2. They have discussed and agreed upon with their partner what would happen should an accidental pregnancy occur.

Also people can still change their mind and decide they do want the child, so you're still at risk, which is something you just should have to accept if you chose to have sex. If a man (or women) doesn't want to pay up to help support this child too freaking bad, they should've though of that before they had sex. No way in hell should some innocent child have to go without just because 2 people couldn't control their urges. The child will already be going without enough by having a biological parent who doesn't want to be an active part of their life they shouldn't have to suffer more by financially going without.

I mostly don't approve of abortion for similar reasons but that would be a different topic...BUT if one of the 2 parents decides they want that baby it should without a doubt be born. This means I also think if a guy gets a women pregnant and she doesn't want it tests should be done to determine paternity, then she should be forced to carry to term and pay child support when the baby comes. Unless its rape in which case the guy should obviously have zero say.